tongue is strongest muscle in your body...kissing is crucial-...i can eat ass (squeaky clean) for hours and play with a smooth hole..vice versa...a jock strap and available hole has me weak at the knees.... the list above is accurate ...not into pain or dominnation...erotic good solid intense deep exploration fun...was married but been with men since college... hooked up whenever travellig...love sex with other married men still... spreading a man's legs open and enjoy the body in ways you can never do with a woman...